unhappiness
my spouse is very unhappy about me. she thinks and she has been told that not only i am a fool but i am ruining her life too by my foolishness. she cross verifies all her actions with her friends and family members and they agree with her. i have become her shame. unfortunately her family members are in india or uk; and they are not able to guide her exactly what should be done. so she is advised to talk to her friends in US and do as done by them.
here is the problem. her friends in US often tells her how she could be such a fool! her children too says the same! she is convinced i am ruining her life and she is very agitated about it. though the rules here in USA does not allow me to take any decision regarding anyone above the of 18 years. Now she must take her decision in person with authorities; and after taking any decision, if she wish to change it after many consultations with her family and friends in US, it is possible. her only criterion for intelligence is wealth must come and never go out; when she is asked to return wealth with interest, She is in fits of rage. she insists that i should cover for her perceived loss. I do not reply. In this circumstances, i do not talk. She has decided to take 5 years back Social Security when she was eligible when I availed it. She could have delayed it by 9 years when she will be 70 years. If so, she would have got 40% more money every month.
Every day she spends more than 12 hours on phone with her family and friends. nothing so much happens in a day to fuel that much talk. when reality runs out they indulge in fiction ~ tv shows films disease cures deaths news information losses gains investments actions incidents parties ... foolishness, take advice, and give advise.
everyone she has contacted availed social security money at the age of 70 years. recently her best and most reliable friend's husband died. in fact in last month his stay in hospital he was paying $500 per day! I never say a single word, when she is in rage and abusing. i just walk away. i refuse to talk to her relations ever. i would never visit her family and they are not welcome in my house. they wish i sell my house and give her 50% because her name is there as owner. she has paid not a cent towards the house; i pay all the expenditure and pay her taxes too for her inhouse business. my house literally unliveable when i ask her to take her business elsewhere. i am silent with her for months years...
recently she came to me saying i am all knowing but lakshman saha too has delayed social security till 70 years. i told her even without social security saha is physician and his income after retirement is $200,000 per annum! i added, I have studied statistics for 7 years and done research for 5 years; I know probability and life expectancy. i asked, when everyone is intelligent, How does a insurance company or social security floats? they would go belly up. one sixth of US economy is insurance. Social security loaned US government 23 trillion deficit. In fact this is the worry; SSA shall not be able to fund those who retire after 10 years; if this continues!! democrats have ruined the economy trying to create their support voting base. they have wasted $2 trillion annually! despite all character problem trump is preferred as president!!
i asked her, now that your best friend's husband is dead ask your friend, had he taken SS payment 5 years earlier at his age of 65 would not she be richer now! my intelligent better half got thoroughly confused whether to be happy or sad. none known to her knows nothing about probability or know how insurance company is most profiting company and rich in US. them even make most investments in share market; they make losses only when economy goes down with share market crash or when they make wrong investment.
here is the problem. her friends in US often tells her how she could be such a fool! her children too says the same! she is convinced i am ruining her life and she is very agitated about it. though the rules here in USA does not allow me to take any decision regarding anyone above the of 18 years. Now she must take her decision in person with authorities; and after taking any decision, if she wish to change it after many consultations with her family and friends in US, it is possible. her only criterion for intelligence is wealth must come and never go out; when she is asked to return wealth with interest, She is in fits of rage. she insists that i should cover for her perceived loss. I do not reply. In this circumstances, i do not talk. She has decided to take 5 years back Social Security when she was eligible when I availed it. She could have delayed it by 9 years when she will be 70 years. If so, she would have got 40% more money every month.
Every day she spends more than 12 hours on phone with her family and friends. nothing so much happens in a day to fuel that much talk. when reality runs out they indulge in fiction ~ tv shows films disease cures deaths news information losses gains investments actions incidents parties ... foolishness, take advice, and give advise.
everyone she has contacted availed social security money at the age of 70 years. recently her best and most reliable friend's husband died. in fact in last month his stay in hospital he was paying $500 per day! I never say a single word, when she is in rage and abusing. i just walk away. i refuse to talk to her relations ever. i would never visit her family and they are not welcome in my house. they wish i sell my house and give her 50% because her name is there as owner. she has paid not a cent towards the house; i pay all the expenditure and pay her taxes too for her inhouse business. my house literally unliveable when i ask her to take her business elsewhere. i am silent with her for months years...
recently she came to me saying i am all knowing but lakshman saha too has delayed social security till 70 years. i told her even without social security saha is physician and his income after retirement is $200,000 per annum! i added, I have studied statistics for 7 years and done research for 5 years; I know probability and life expectancy. i asked, when everyone is intelligent, How does a insurance company or social security floats? they would go belly up. one sixth of US economy is insurance. Social security loaned US government 23 trillion deficit. In fact this is the worry; SSA shall not be able to fund those who retire after 10 years; if this continues!! democrats have ruined the economy trying to create their support voting base. they have wasted $2 trillion annually! despite all character problem trump is preferred as president!!
i asked her, now that your best friend's husband is dead ask your friend, had he taken SS payment 5 years earlier at his age of 65 would not she be richer now! my intelligent better half got thoroughly confused whether to be happy or sad. none known to her knows nothing about probability or know how insurance company is most profiting company and rich in US. them even make most investments in share market; they make losses only when economy goes down with share market crash or when they make wrong investment.
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